MJ Adia
Sep 5, 2021

Even though your personality might be to observe first, which is great, I am also happy that your boss thought to include you early on and wanted to hear your voice and saw you as an expert. I have had the opposite experience in many occasions, when I did have opinions but I had to fight to get a word in. In college, I learned to speak up more because I noticed that mostly white male extrovert students got all the speaking time, even if they didn't have much to say. It was hard.

MJ Adia
MJ Adia

Written by MJ Adia

Black-Filipina. Lived in Peru for 5 years. LICSW, dancer, meditator. Writes about multiculturalism, cinema, race, social issues.

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